Don’t waste your time with men that don’t show interest in you. Someone that wants you will make sure to let you know that he does.
Don’t ask yourself why the man that you love is not making the same effort as you or what is happening in his mind because if he loves you back, you wouldn’t be asking yourself those questions.
If a man wants you, he will make an effort to show his love, it’s that simple. If you think otherwise, you are simply not accepting the truth that he’s not into you as much as you’re into him.
And he’s not confused either. He is just not spending too much time thinking about you as you do about him. And don’t think that things will be better after some time passes. He knows that you are not what sparks his interest and time won’t change that.
The efforts that he makes are only enough to get to the part of you, his feelings aren’t deep and genuine, and deep within you, you know that he’s not the one for you.
A part of you might try to tell you that he might be shying away from you because of your independence, or strong personality, but that’s not the case. He’s not too busy with anything else either.
All of his excuses are already known to you. If he cares about you, he will put all things aside just for you, but your guy only wants you when it’s convenient for him.
Men are believed to be the ones that should initiate and make the first move in any relationship, and if a man thinks about you all the time, he will surely do that. If he doesn’t have time for you, that means he’s simply not thinking about you. He won’t care how much you love him and there’s nothing you can do about it.
You need to accept the truth and know that things aren’t going to get better. Your love and time are wasted on this man and he doesn’t care enough about you to continue hurting yourself. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love him and someone that will do anything in his power to profess his love to you.
Someone willing to change because of you, and someone that will show you love as you’ve never experienced before. Someone that is going to be an inspiration to you and someone that doesn’t get tired of texting you, calling you, and being honest with you all the time.
There isn’t any reason to be there for someone that’s not there for you. If he doesn’t realize how much pain he’s causing you, then he doesn’t deserve you. Know that you’re worthy of his attention and that you should be his priority.
If you’re not happy in the relationship, then there’s no point in going on with it. But don’t just tell yourself things, you need to take action. Don’t wait for things to get better – make them better for you. It’s easy as turning around, closing the door, and making way for the right person that will make you happy to come in.